I started this site with a goal and a purpose in my mind. To share my story of how I survived a very nasty divorce and to help women who are in a similar situation.
During my 2 year divorce and subsequent court battle I gained a lot of knowledge. Knowledge on the court system and how it works, knowledge on how to let go of the anger, knowledge on how to communicate and most importantly, knowledge on how to empower myself and love me again.
I hate to ban anyone from this site, but this is a safe haven, and I refuse to be bullied or have this space filled with hate and lies. So, I did what I had to do. I banned someone. Her vile comments on here and on my Huffington Post articles were getting harder and harder to ignore.
You see, I have become a master at turning the other cheek. This is how I have survived post divorce. I have turned the other cheek so many times, I sometimes get dizzy, but I was at the end of my rope. I could only respond with “Thank you for your comment” so many times, and I had reached my limit.
Now the response this person gets is…
Thank you for visiting The Post-Divorce Chronicles! This site is for registered users only. If you would like to be invited to register, please contact us on twitter @PostDvorceCoach. Thank you and have a lovely day!
And, she has gotten this response as of 2/3 401 times. Yes, folks, she has tried to access this site 401 times over the past 2.5 weeks. It is sad and it is pathetic, but it shows you another way to take back your power. Do not let anyone control your life. Once you find your freedom, keep it and run with it.
YOU deserve it!